The Chilling Psychology of Gaslighting

Gaslighting is a form of psychological abuse where a person causes someone to doubt their reality.

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The Goal: Control Through Confusion

Gaslighters distort facts, deny evidence, and blame the victim to gain control over their perception.

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Common Phrases Gaslighters Use

“You're too sensitive.” “That never happened.” “You’re imagining things.” These phrases undermine trust in yourself.

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The Psychology Behind It

Gaslighting exploits cognitive dissonance—our discomfort when reality clashes with someone else's narrative.

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How Victims Are Affected

Victims often experience anxiety, confusion, low self-esteem, and even question their sanity over time.

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It Can Happen Anywhere

Gaslighting is found in relationships, workplaces, politics, and even media. It thrives where power is abused.

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Warning Signs to Watch For

Frequent self-doubt, always apologizing, and feeling like “the problem” are major red flags.

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Reclaiming Your Truth

Validation, support systems, therapy, and education help survivors break free and heal.